Okay, I need help.

I have a terrible time focusing at work, primarily because I don't really enjoy the work and it doesn't challenge me. My poor job performance is feeding into and reinforcing my poor self-esteem, making it impossible to want either improve at this job or find a new one. I can't afford a shrink or a 'career counselor', so here I am.

Dear readers, please share your favorite organizational and focus tips. It doesn't matter if it seems completely elementary or obvious to you, it may not be to me. If I already know it, I'll appreciate the reminder. I need something, because we really can't afford for me to lose this job, and I need to shake myself out of this paralysis.

Thanks.

And gchick sums up the best reason not to use Frienditto

Everyone's all abuzz about Frienditto
The part where it's nasty and abusive and uncivil has been well-covered by everyone.

The part I haven't seen enough say is that if you're using Frienditto, not only do you get the fleeting schadenfreude of seeing petty backchannel nobody-but-your-in-group-actually-cares comments hung out like so much dirty laundry, you're also giving them full access to your own LJ. Excellent work there, cowpoke.

(As if it needs saying - please don't use Frienditto on me. kthxbye)